It’s a situation that happens to nearly every woman at some point in her single life. She falls in love with a guy who doesn’t return her feelings. This can be one of the most painful experiences for her and she may feel that she’ll never be able to recover from it. This is not meant to belittle your grief at this pain, however, you CAN move past this and on to happier relationships in your life.
The first step in recovering from a situation such as this is deciding you WANT to move on. That’s right; you have to WANT to get over your feelings before anything will ever help you. If you’ve decided to wallow in your own personal pity party, nothing is ever going to make you happy again. That’s because you’ve made the decision to be miserable for the rest of your life because this ONE MAN did not love you back. Please think about that for a minute. For just 60 seconds, consider what you’ve decided to do and ask yourself how much sense that actually makes.
Now, if you’re thinking more clearly and have decided to push forward in your recovery, your next step is to just accept that this isn’t going to happen. Chances are you’ve already tried all of your feminine wiles on the object of your affection without any results. If getting your body in great shape, something new with your hair, new makeup techniques, and making sure he sees your new and improved body in the hot new bikini you bought all went unnoticed, it’s time to move on. The really awful part is when you run into him with a date that is not nearly as pretty as you, yet he seems to be totally enamored of her. Don’t wonder what’s wrong with you. Just accept that he has tastes in women that you do not match, for whatever reason.
Once you’ve gone through the above steps, don’t avoid people. Your friends will want to be there for you now and help you in whatever way they can. Let them do this. It will make all of you feel much better. Go out with them and, when you’re ready, let them introduce you to guys they just “know” will be perfect for you. Who knows? One of them just may REALLY BE your perfect guy!
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